Had the first Christmas of the season together with my extended family in a small place called Boonville, Missouri this past Sunday. Each year we gather in about the middle of the state and eat food, visit, exchange gifts and enjoy each others company. We used to go to my grandmother's house every year which was located in the heart of Boonville, however about ten years ago she had to move out of her house once her health started to decline. Then my grandmother had an apartment for awhile but that time was short lived and then she was living with assistance for some years, close to a medical staff if needed with others who are of retirement age. It has been a few Christmas's without her now and I do miss her warm spirit. My grandma always had an interesting take on life and things that were happening in the world, most importantly she always knew how to make us laugh and smile. I miss her and think of her more when it comes to the holidays. It was always a tradition, especially when my brother and I were younger, to go to our Grandmother's house for the holidays, and sometimes for a week in the summertime too. I don't remember my Grandfather as much and he passed away a few years before my father passed away. Then the year after my father passed my other Grandfather passed away. I only have one Grandmother left and I'm greatful to be a part of her life and she in mine every single day. Family is an important part of my life and I am happy to get the chance to see my family during holidays, birthdays and weddings. And even though it is a sad time when we gather I do enjoy seeing my family when we are together for a memorial, just wish it was under better circumstances.
This time of year I ask you one question? What are you thankful for?
I know what I am. Moments that last a lifetime, those memories that will never be forgotten, time with family though sometimes short lived at least it was a moment together in time.
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